It’s true that some foreign guys are just looking for a casual sexual relationship. Yet, the thing that tends to be left out of this discussion in the Chinese blogosphere, is that the people themselves are only acting as agents for the cultures in which they grew up.
The heart of this issue comes from the fact that dating, relationships and sex in Western countries is far more casual than in China, even in bigger, more metropolitan cities like Beijing and Shanghai.
Online dating with Russian, Belarusian girls, Ukraine girls or girls from Moldova, Kazakhstan, Latvia is not easy for some guys if you deal with the dating thing in a right way and with a good manner.
So we’ve gotten a few questions lately about dating in China.
Similarly, while I suspect that many of these ideas still apply to some extent if you are a foreign girl looking to date a Chinese guy, or with gay/lesbian dating in China, I unfortunately cannot offer any first-hand accounts of these types of relationships.
I welcome the input of our readers in the comments section below! You always hear about foreign guys coming to hook up with innocent Chinese girls and then leaving them the next day.
That's because her grandparents' and possibly (depending on where in China she is from) her parents still value marital stability above all else in their time, given the instability and volatility of their eras.
In fact, I once dated a girl who would only meet up at places that her parents AND grandmother had pre-approved; as you can imagine none of these places were very fun.
Besides dealing with the whole “Yellow Fever” stereotype, there are certainly some things you should know before you start dating in China, so you and your Chinese partner don’t have too many surprises along the way.As a result, girls join Eastern European dating sites to look for love and life partner. Many single beautiful European girls and women are not able to find their soul mate in their own countries and are attracted by western men. Take Russian and Ukrainian single ladies seeking foreign husband from China and America for example.As a result, girls join Eastern European dating sites to look for love and life partner.The topic is a perennial favorite on Chinese forums and Weibo.These criticisms are 1) patronizing to the women who date foreign guys 2) slightly xenophobic and 3) not entirely unfounded.