While he almost makes you choke on your taco when he tells you he loves you after only a handful of dates, you tell yourself you should really "trust" him. After a full week of silence, your two best friends are willing you to "eat something." By week 12, you're strangers in the night, and all voicemails/emails go unanswered. You, however, may have diarrhea for the rest of the summer. Charm is great, but a talented charmer can turn it on anywhere, any time, with anyone.
It’s not surprising, considering how much the media perpetuates the idea of assholes as the ones who you’re supposed to save and fall in love with. Women deserve to date someone who is considerate, morally conscientious, and just plain polite. There are those who pride themselves on being that way, while there are others who don’t realize that they’re being assholes. They will never admit that they’re being jerks, unless you call them out on it.Here are 10 things you're doing that's preventing you from finding a great guy. You make someone who treats you like an option a priority.Any woman who has ever walked into a Sephora knows that there are many options in the world — perfume, concealers, The problem occurs when someone sits on the sidelines while the other plays the field (or worse, games).Stop, think, and ask yourself: Are you dating a jerk? You allow this person to sleep over every night, almost pretending to yourself you're already living together. Or maybe that wedding she excitedly invited you to as a date suddenly ceases to exist.This is the one who falls in love with you immediately ("immediately" being somewhere in the range of two to four weeks). Just a few days and abrupt emails later, all modes of communication are down, and a happenstance meeting on the street leaves you with nothing but a cold shoulder.