Play the Field"It's important to be in more than one community," Davis says."It's like being in more than one social circle." She suggests joining one mainstream site (say, e Harmony or Match.com) as well as one niche service, such as Cupidtino, which brings Apple-product obsessives together, or the unapologetically elitist Sparkology (the site's men—but not its women! "Changing sites from time to time, and then revisiting, is the best strategy," says Davis. Ace Your Profile"Your user name is going to inspire them to click," says Davis, who suggests a terminology mash-up (e.g., Sporty Smile).contacted her one day last year and told her that, according to some serious math, she was the most-messaged girl in New York City on Ok Cupid.That's when her life kind of blew up — strangers would bombard Urasek with questions about her crazy dating stories.For example, if you’re more of an edgy kind of guy (“bad boy), women will be confused if you post a preppy photo.Conversely, if you’re going for the nice guy routine, don’t upload pictures showing off tattoos while wearing a muscle shirt. I hate cheesy clichés, but a profile picture really is worth 1,000 words.
It really amazes me how many men try to show off as much skin as possible or – even worse – post pictures of their junk. Think about what you would think of a woman if she was in a skimpy bikini in her profile picture. Would you want to have a long-term relationship with a slutty woman?
People who have been there are always excited to share their experience.
People who haven't ask me if this is real, where it is, if I edited the background (I only upped the contrast, but for its 99.99999 percent real).
At 30, after a breakup that involved spotting her boyfriend draped around another woman, digital strategist Amy Webb decided to try meeting men online.
And she did: On JDate, Match.com, and e Harmony, she met guys who were six inches shorter or 30 pounds heavier than advertised; who picked expensive restaurants and passed the check to her; and who told her, mid drink, that they were married.