As your sense of sex and gender adjusts, you may need to adapt your language."Queer" may fit better now than "lesbian." There's not one right answer, nor hurry to choose personally-appropriate labels.However, you will come to understand difference and acceptance on a whole new level.When you analyze it, can you think of anything more transgressive than dating this man? And, don't forget, you'll now get to discover this person with whom you've shared a long term attraction, and to learn him as his authentic self! Even well-intentioned people will ask completely personal and inappropriate questions.People looking for friendships and pen pal relationships may want to check out these options first.
Even in my depths of denial about being trans I always had a thing for bisexual women and I believe that was my unconscious desire for someone who would accept the male inside of me and the female body I presented it in at the time.
These motives usually come in the form of wanting to dupe people out of their money.
People using these personals should watch out for anyone who: Other places to meet transgender people online besides the personals sites include Meetup.com, Experience Project.com, My Space and Facebook.
As a sex therapist in private practice, I'm asked all sorts of interesting questions on a regular basis. Question: I'm a politically active high femme lesbian. We have good history, shared values, similar interests. As a couple, you will probably be read by strangers as straight, just as you are now when alone. You both work in queer-related jobs, and likely both have diverse circles of friends.
The following touched on sensitive and important issues deserving of being shared with others. About ten years ago, I met an attractive Butch when we shared both political and social interests. The chemistry is still there, and we're both available, but now it all seems confusing. Stay connected with your (now expanded) social network. You may encounter resistance even within your tribe, as identities and loyalties are sensitive to change.