In tenth grade, we made friends with a group of older guys who hung out on the main street of town, which ran parallel to the local university — guys who'd once gone to our same high school and had never left the social scene. I remember how quiet it was, birds soaring overhead, no other sound. "Like we were supposed to be boyfriend and girlfriend, or something.""Well," she said slowly. I'd completely accepted her romance with an older guy as normal, even destined. When he wasn't upset, he was in kindness overdrive, buying me things: a gold necklace with a floating heart, stuffed animals.
When they weren't doing BMX and skateboard tricks in front of the post office, they were spending what money they had at the nearby arcade, or spinning on stools and shooting straw wrappers in their favorite burger joint, just across the street. I grew to dread the moments we were alone, especially when I needed a ride home at the end of the night to make my curfew.
I think back on myself at that age and what a difference.
Although it can work, a woman in her 30's is at a much different stage in life than that of a man that is in his early 20's.
We talked to eachother and made sure if that was what we wanted considering our age difference and it seems that it is.
We really like eachother but we arent sure on how other people would take it.
I told him this could not be serious we could just explore, but 2 months into it he asked me to be with him, and I said I had to really think about it.....3 months into it my feelings have grown for him.... Why did you break up with him if you were in love with him? I'm in the exact same boat, 31 & falling for a 21 year old who seems more mature than most men I've met, I'm an independent successful woman that never thought I'd be in this situation, most men are intimidated by my strong personality and independence, but this 21 year old makes me feel intimidated like He breaks my guards and makes me feel like he has some overpowering connection that I can't explain. She some time confused because she say it is nor right i say with you, you need to find some on in your age.
He is doing his masters in engineering and was also in the army, maybe it's why he is mature or am I telling myself this??? I don't want left her never ever but some people say it is not right you stay with some one older than you.
Help if he picked u it was for a reason if he says and is true to u about ur realationship he is not looking for how u look that is only in the surface he loves u more than u know he is looking more in to ur heart that has more meaning than looks and beauty u should be happy give him all the attention he needs and love him true they say love concoures all so live it he might not ever leave ur side wat u feel in heart is the answear I'm in the same boat... Guy for a over a year, we talk all the time and get a long great. But we understand each other very well and we have lots of same idea and opinion i don’t know why i have to left her only because of the age???? During this 6 months lots of things happend between us like some time we decided to break but we couldn't. By entering this site you declare you are 18 or older, you read and agreed to its Terms, Rules & Privacy and you understand that your use of the site's content is made at your own risk and responsibility.
I've always had older friends by the maximum of 5 years my whole life. Hi I'm 16 and I was just curious upon how anyone feels about me dating a 21 year old guy..
Mind you that I am very mature for my age and I don't get along well with the average person around my age.