It wasn’t until relatively recently that I started to embrace my otherness.
The biggest difference is that a white woman knows her position and accepts her role as a woman and let's her man lead.So what’s it like to date white guys when you’re not white? But there’s some cool words coming out too, you know. And seriously, whoever came up with the term ‘blowjob lips’?Well, it’s exciting and intense and awkward-in-a-good-way for the first few months, and then it gets weird and annoying and you split up and then you see them on a date with someone else a month later and you die inside and have to drink all the wine to get over it. You want stuff that’s exclusive to the whole brown girl/white boy scenario? I have no idea whether that’s the African thing or just because I eat a lot of lasagne but it doesn’t matter. What a lot of people don’t realise is that when they start talking like that about lips, they’re not just being sexist fuckwits.Social media maven and empowerment superstar, Breukelen Bleu wrote a post this morning that was brilliant and a must read.Here’s a little bit: Focusing on looks for long term partnership is LAZY and LOW CLASS.