Of course seek discernment and ask God if you are in His will.
Ask Him to reveal characteristics that are pleasing to Him as well as reveal those things that are red flags, then proceed or walk away accordingly.
A guy must ask a girl’s dad first, then the guy must ask the girl, then the girl must say yes, then the couple can start seeing each other IN GROUPS (! If things go well for the first eight months or so, the couple may or may not be allowed to spend semi-unsupervised time together and possibly even (GASP! Once the young man has firmly established himself financially and is sufficiently godly, he can ask the girl to marry him. Both families, as well as lots of church members, must be involved in the entire process, from start to finish. There are so many variables in each relationship: the age of the couple, the spiritual maturity of the couple, whether or not both sets of parents are believers, how long the guy and girl have been a Christian, the ethnicity of the couple, and on and on.
As Christian single women, it should not be our goal to date aimlessly.
Just because a guy offers to buy you dinner does not mean his request should be granted.
You both are trying to determine if the other would be a good ministry partner (yes, marriage is a ministry).
While dating should not be about a list of rules to follow, there are a few principles that can help you get the most out of this experience.