I knew something about HIV from the magazines and GMFA flyers, and that if somebody came inside you that was a big risk.
But I wasn’t absolutely clear about other methods of transmission.
The PARTNER study reported zero HIV transmissions after 800 couples had sex than 58,000 times without a condom when the positive partner had an undetectable viral load.
For more information on HIV and natural conception, please follow this link on HIV and pregnancy and this link on the Swiss Statement.
I remember phoning up the NHS Direct helpline, telling them I’d had my tongue up this boy’s ass, and asking whether I needed PEP.
A low number of conception attempts has a very very low risk if the HIV positive person has an undetectable viral load.This is desperate talk from HIV-positive men: "Why can't I find a boyfriend?Every guy I talk to on Grindr stops talking to me once I disclose my HIV status." "I don't know what happened.So we try to arm ourselves as best we can, because no matter how many broken hearts we bury, the battle for love must go on.But there is one surefire way of turning every future love scenario into a bloodbath, no matter how much of a match the two of you may be, and that is being HIV-positive and desperate for a date.