It is not rare to see a younger guy and an older woman date and have a very intense sexual and romantic relationship, which defies the traditional “older man, younger woman” set-up that we are used to seeing. First, the fact that such a dating situation is still somewhat taboo makes is all the more enticing and exciting.
Many younger guys are driven to women who are 10 years older than they are or more, as these women are often more confident and more sexually driven and passionate than the younger women.
Joy Davidson, the stakes are generally higher for her.
NEXT: Before You Go [pagebreak] Your first meeting is about you, certainly, but says psychologist, sex therapist, advice columnist, speaker and author, Dr.All right, so now you’re all set with a shiny dating profile that’s garnered lots of hits from potential hotties.You’ve winnowed through the pool and chosen your potential catch.Keep your cool and calm his jitters by giving him a warm hi and a quick hello hug.Then make a joke that acknowledges the weirdness ("Full disclosure: I changed three times! (If he honks from your driveway, wave him in for just a minute while you grab your purse and jacket.)Your instinct may be to ask a bunch of questions to get him to open up, but that can feel like a college admissions interview.