I was going out with a 17 year old when I was 14, roughly the same age gap.The main thing parents are going to be worrying about is sex & alcohol probably.Recycled LRC: having sex with a teenager is like playing tennis with a retard. Uhhh, it's weird because you're using someone with nowhere near your maturity level purely to get sex. Honestly, it's probably only one or two rungs above the guys you see on To Catch a Predator trying to meet up with 15 year-olds.My additional thoughts: That hot @ss is only temporary. The youngest person he should date should be 23 or older.ignorant turd wrote: I will say at 37 I still find a tight little 19 year old azz to be just as fine as when I was 19. And really, the issue isn't intelligence so much as it is maturity.Trust me, you're not mature for your age, not at all.In fact, your actions truly show how very immature you are. The girl likely doesn't have many friends and/or has family problems and wants to feel loved.
And really, the issue isn't intelligence so much as it is maturity.
Hello, This is a fairly simple question, however I see myself getting various different reactions; I figured that a forum full of parents was going to be the most productive place to ask this question, seeing as its a parents oppinion that I am looking for, and in this case, my own parents oppinion isn't going to suffice, as it will undoubtedly be biased. A few months back, I met a girl at my former college (I have now left, having finished sixth form.), aged 15.
Needless to say, we got along straight away, as if we'd known each other for years. It has now reached the point where I plan on asking the said girl out. Not so much in terms of what my friends or fellow colleagues may think (Infact, to be quite honest, given the level of navity and immaturity displayed by some of them, I really couldn't care less.).
If your parents are telling you this isn't okay, then I have to disagree with you. When you're 20 then date a 27 year old, but at 12, a 7 year age difference is not okay.
So, OP, if you really care about this guy, go to No Contact, start being 12, stop trying to do adult things until you're an adult.