Yet this desire can cloud our judgment and lead to poor choices.
It can even feel like too much work starting over with someone new.
"Baby" is code for "I think wearing puka shell necklaces is cool, and no matter where we go, I'm secretly going to do coke in the bathroom."12.
His idea of a date is really just a thinly veiled sexual euphemism.
They crack us up on a daily basis with their rationales behind what women do that stop some men dead in their dating tracks.
Relationship red flags portray a clear picture of a wrong guy as the one who gets irritated when you ask questions relating to future prospects of your ongoing relationship.
But if he's describing himself as an "entrepreneur" and refuses to get more detailed or refers to his job situation as "complicated" instead of being up front, that should be a red flag. Either he's seeing someone else and doesn't want to be spotted out with another woman in his hometown, he doesn't see a future with you and doesn't want you knowing where he lives just so he can keep his distance, or he's basically a hoarder and he doesn't want you to see the state his place is in.
If he doesn't have a job, it's understandable that he won't want to lead with that, but if he won't even elaborate when pressed, he either (1) does something shady as hell for a living or (2) is just fine with lying a lot.14. It's one thing if he's being a gentleman and doesn't want you to make a long drive out to see him.
One of the most obvious red flag in your relationship is that if your guy shows no concern toward deciding dates and other relative activities.
It is rather you who is expected from him to decide stuff.